Despite the title of this article, I am not advocating for women to become a common whore. What I am saying, is that every girl should have a time in her life to experience sex with different men, different sizes of penises and in different ways. The common school of thought after a relationship ends is to take some time for yourself and heal your wounds. While that is recommended, I would suggest that the best way to get over one is to get under one. (Several ones, in fact) There are some poignant times in a woman’s life when she should just let go. After a divorce or break up, but also in her youth. Before marriage and children and adult responsibilities is the perfect time. There is a great deal of benefit to having these different experiences and figuring out what you like.
The Slut Phase and Why Every Girl Should Have One
Pros and Cons
Exploration of curiosity and desires is the biggest pro for the slut phase. Guilt and shame would be the biggest con. These two go hand in hand because of taboo factor. If you are going to navigate a slut phase well, lose the guilt and see it for what it is. This is a time that is meant to be fun and sexually explorative. If you are not good at handling one-night stands or casual FWB relationships, you will fail. Again, it is all about attitude and mindset. Turn that “walk of shame” into your slut strut.
It’s all about highlighting the positives that can come from something like this. If you’ve been with the same person for years, you are probably a little rusty in the bedroom. New partners can bring out your adventurous side. The same could be said for those who haven’t had many partners at all. As a divorced woman who is single, I will tell you that I have learned so much more about myself sexually from flings than I ever did from monogamous relationships. I have learned to let go in the moment and not look back with regret or remorse.
Be on the lookout for the dreaded Frien-ter-vention. Your girlfriends or people in general might see your behavior as a cry for help or an act of low self-esteem. That’s okay, and that is their opinion. So long as you are comfortable, safe and sane about your slut phase, let them talk! If you are the friend who sees this behavior as an opportunity to tell a friend a cautionary tale of why she should stop, resist that urge. A slut phase is something that has to run its course, whether it is a week or 6 months. Let her be slutty!
There’s nothing wrong with wanting sex!
Maybe you like it five times a day. Maybe you want to try it in public or just christen every room in your house. Sex is a powerful thing and a natural act, so why fight it because everyone else says it is a sacred act between two committed people? You can be just as committed to having several one-night stands as you can a lifetime of monogamy. It’s all about attitude. The slut phase revolves around your satisfaction and no one else’s. It is a time of self-discovery and getting your needs met. This is not about falling in love or meeting “the one”. This is about meeting Mr. Right Now! Girl, go get you some (and a bunch of condoms) and don’t think twice about it.
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